Start it with A SMILE :)

Start it with a 'SMILE'...

In the morning, when you just wake up and head out of your room, a member of your family wishes you, 'Good Morning!'. But you return them an Irritated stare. You will then start b'rushing' your teeth and hurriedly take your bath. Then comes your breakfast which you will hastily finish off (even you may say a word to your mother or spouse for serving it late!) and then just leave in a hurry for your college/work. And when the reason is asked for your mood, you just blame it something like bad sleep.

This kind of scenes are routinely seen at our houses. 

But did you ever try :

    1. waking up a few minutes faster and that too with a Smile on your face? 

    2. wishing back your family member politely?

    3. taking enough time to brush, bath and get ready?

    4. complimenting your mom/spouse for delicious breakfast?

Do you have this question of  'Why?', right now?

Doing all those four steps as said, you would get a Bright Smile in return! Both yours and your family's.
Try it.. I am sure it would make your day.

That's not at all a hard task. You would just want yourself to be happy and smiling!

Doing routine things differently doesn't necessarily mean we have to change the whole process or instill new things to do that. It may even mean 'Changing of our Attitude towards it. Having a pleasant attitude..a Smile on your face while doing it'. Surely the results would differ. The Results would be more Positive.

Wishing someone good day..thanking them for the little thing they did..asking for an apology when needed. These pretty simple things will make our lives much easier..much happier.

Acknowledging someone for their help/service, these days, became a Formality and a strict no-no in friendships and relationships. I don't really approve of this. It is not a formality or something..it's just a way of saying that you are happy for their help/service.

Some days ago, when I posted a status in Facebook. It says somewhat like this, 'When we face power cuts, we tend to scold the electricity board people. But when we are enjoying the current, we never seem to thank them for it!'. Some people felt it as rubbish. But I feel sorry for those who can't appreciate the value of little but very important things.

Let us learn to say Thank you and Sorry whenever needed.
Let us make it The New Cool Thing to say.
Let us make Gratitude, our Attitude! 

Let us even learn to talk pleasingly.

We don't even think once before loosing our temper so easily and talking rude to people. But we tend to think so much, unnecessarily, to say what has to be said, to keep everything in place, save our relationships and that which makes us feel calm and content.

We like our breakfast..but don't tend to thank who prepared it.
We will like the work done..but don't appreciate the one who did it.
We like the outfit our friend is wearing..but we think too much  to compliment her.
We love our family so much..but we don't often show that love.
We tend to get angry so fast..hate so haste..talk too harsh.

Let us try keeping our cool because getting angry is not at all posh..hating is not high-society thing..and talking rude is no way 'cool'.

People nowadays seem to use the very rude 'F language' so easily. But, guys, that's not at all a 'so thought' high-class, posh and new 'cool' lingo. Those words are as cheap as they mean. So let us not make dirty of our characters using such language. We can show the world, our true class, by using Better language.

If something is cool, that is our pleasing words. ( not F words or rude language )If something is classy, that is our polite behaviour. ( not the harsh behaviour )If something is Attitude, that is Smile n Gratitude! ( not being straight faced and headstrong )

So..

Smile Smile Smile
As it reaches people beyond mile
And Our hearts start doing Jive
Coz its all 'In the Celebration of being Alive!'

#MissSunshine

#kavzfilosofy

#LifeUnpredictable

signing off..

Kavya Krishna.